Celebrating New Years Day in Ramallah? Anta Mejnoon?
Celebrating New Years Day in Ramallah? Anta Mejnoon?

(It reads: On this earth what makes life worth living- a poem title of Darwish)
I told one of my friends from the U.S. that I was going to visit the the West Bank. “Go with God”, he said. The implication here is that I would be in physical danger. Interestingly enough, before I visited Ramallah I had strange visions of being followed as an American in the West Bank- perhaps seeing a run down van barreling toward me filled with armed men intent on ending me, or abducting me.
I made an excellent friend on New Years Day in the West Bank, Karim. I told him that I was a little intimidated to come to the West Bank because I thought it might be dangerous. “It is too bad that people are afraid to visit here. It is an unfortunate side effect of the rhetoric used by those in power”, he said. When I told him my friend gave me a blessing of safety he said even in that joke there is an element of truth.
It wasn’t a joke, I assured him.
I studied Conflict Transformation for two years. About a third of that degree was intentionally digging into my own history, my community, my own narrative, and unearthing the stereotypes that I have about others. After unearthing the stereotypes I had I strove to become intimate with them. Stereotypes and labels of others- these are things I was not proud of, but I had to recognize them and own them for myself.
During my studies I wrote a self reflective essay On the word Nigger where I explored when I heard the N word dropped as a kid growing up in the rural South. In what context was it used and how did the word and actions associated with it frame my world view? These questions were very important for me to notice how stereotypes create a haze of unconscious choices and behaviors when confronted with people from the “other” or enemy group.
So, I was surprised that I walked into the West Bank with so many stereotypes and odd expectations. I thought that I was capable of being aware of my assumptions and stereotypes about the “other”, but I found that these working stereotypes were effectively making me run on auto pilot in regards to the West Bank. I was scared to visit the West Bank for my own safety. After being in Israel for five months I finally went into the West Bank only after someone I knew and trusted took me there.

(Central Market, Ramallah)
Where did my fear of being hurt in the West Bank come from? Why didn’t I seek to become intimate with these stereotypes- to talk to people in the West Bank- to read and research other people’s experiences?
It is an important question for all of us. How much of our fear of another group comes from a secondary source vs. direct experience? My fear of visiting Ramallah stemmed mainly from the huge concrete barrier between the West Bank and Israel.
It was a subconscious deductive exercise. I like Israelis → Israelis treat me kindly → Israelis have a wall somewhere → walls keep out danger and dangerous people → to go on the other side of that wall is stupid
Perhaps this exercise is a bit simplistic, but you can pose the question to yourself. Would you go to Ramallah (assuming it is legal for you to do so)? What would keep you from going? How did you reach this conclusion? What are the sources for your decision?
The question is more than just personal exploration or an academic exercise. If you can get yourself to Ramallah, by all means get there! It is a fun and vibrant city that is filled with warm and kind people. Everywhere I went people said “Welcome to Ramallah!” and even looking like you are lost will attract people who are willing to help you out.
I can’t finish this essay without mentioning the Chinese food. Not in all of my days have I had better lo-mein than in Ramallah. The backlava and shwarma wasn’t too shabby either.

(Mmmmmm Hamporgers!)
Around mid-night on Dec. 31st I found myself walking toward the center of town, which is a traffic circle strung up with lovely lights and 3 prominent statues of lions. I was hoping to make the New Year memorable, but it was my first night in Ramallah so I didn’t quite know what was happening.
As I made it to the center of town I saw that there was a good majority of the town here, waiting for New Years. Right around midnight the traffic circle was filled with cars bumper to bumper. Then the horns started. It was quite invigorating to hear over a hundred cars blaring their horns- and then everyone there started clapping, dancing, and singing the same song. “Happy New Year!” many people around me shouted, recognizing that I didn’t know Arabic.

(Ramallah’s Center)
No orchestration, no plan, no big shiny ball, just people being in the same place at the same time using their voice and body to celebrate the new year. As my earlier feelings of danger and suspicion began to dissolve, I felt safe, and I felt welcomed by the people of Ramallah.













